Love, Loving, and Accepting Love

Pocket Ranch Institute News
 

Dear Friends of Pocket Ranch

Summer arrived at Pocket Ranch and guests took advantage of the swimming pool. The seasons seem to come and go, just as our challenges come and go. What doesn’t change is the quality of work done here for those who come seeking help. It’s a good feeling for all of us to know we truly are making a positive difference in the lives of our clients.

The Oprah Winfrey show was a very interesting experience and fun. I was disappointed with the way it turned out, particularly with the unproductive polarization of the two psychiatrists who appeared. Learning to speak in sound bites and really saying what counts is challenging. I’m learning. Educating our society about the individual and societal importance of pre- and peri-natal issues is critical. Unwanted pregnancies, uncared for infants, abused and neglected children grow up as damaged, angry and fearful teenagers and adults. Recent research shows a direct correlation between unwanted, neglected babies and violent behavior by the age of eighteen. We are all paying the price. If you can help, please do.

Bottom line always seems to come back to learning about love, loving and accepting love. It’s what is always lacking at the root of pain. Sadly, we persist in looking outside when the treasure is within. When I had the privilege of meeting His Holiness, The Dali Lama, I asked him, “Why do people hate themselves?” It was the only time in our conversation that he asked for a translation. The result was amazed befuddlement on his part and he asked me, “Where do people learn that? How do people learn that?” Good questions.

Part of our work here at Pocket Ranch Institute looks for that answer and then works toward, at least, finding a gentle compassion for ourselves and our wounds.

It is said that added meaning is the hallmark of neurosis. Of course it’s always added from something in the past. Go see the movie Forrest Gump for an example of someone who adds no meaning. “I’m not a smart man Jenny,” Forrest says, “But I know about love.” Right on Forrest! We can all learn from you. We can all benefit from loving energy and when we have it we share it naturally.

Thanks for your interest and positive thoughts. We appreciate it... and share it. Hope you enjoyed the summer and have a good fall. Autumn is in the air here.

Lovingly,

Barbara